It was my husband, not me…I swear! But yes, the old, “Don’t be naughty because Santa is watching,” tactic was used in my household last week. My four-year-old quickly rebuffed, “There’s no way Santa can see me all the time.” I then found myself quoting the classic Christmas song word for word:
He sees you when you're sleepin', He knows when you're awake, he knows if you've been bad or good, So be good for goodness sake.
Granted, I was trying to hide the giggles under my breath, but let’s be honest parents; we secretly wish the veiled threats of Santa skipping our house will improve our childrens’ behavior during December, making our lives that much more bearable during this hectic time of year. I was recounting this story to someone at church. His response was, “Isn’t it something that the song gives the worst advice?!” He was referring to the opening stanza:
You better watch out, You better not cry, Better not pout, I'm telling you why: Santa Claus is comin' to town.
Specifically, the second line: you better not cry. This idea that crying, or having an emotional response, means you are naughty or weak. It may be an archaic idea, like “boys don’t cry,” but I do believe this concept is deeply embedded in Western society. In fact, many people are never comfortable showing or sharing strong emotions around others. It prevents some folks from speaking openly with their spouse, building deep friendships or seeking professional counseling. What does Jesus say?
“Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh. (Luke 6:21) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. (Matthew 11:28-29)
If you are in a season where you find yourself weeping more than laughing, turn to the Lord for comfort. This Sunday at 3pm, there’s an opportunity to seek comfort as a community during our annual Blue Christmas service. Let people come alongside you, in your crying, grieving, seeking, doubting, anger, distress, regret… You are a beloved child of God. Elizabeth Virkler Director of Worship, Music and the Arts